For the Ladies: Embracing Your Feminine Energy in Solitude
- Ansley Joi

- Nov 1
- 2 min read
Updated: Nov 4

This post is for the ladies.
First, I want to remind you — you are extraordinary. You are beautiful, powerful, and capable of embracing your divine feminine energy while going after anything you desire in life.
Don’t let anyone dim your light or steal your glow. My love, shine as bright as you want to, and be intentional about who you allow into your energy and your timeline.
The Cost of Being Desired
As women, many of us crave to be desired — but at what cost?
The cost of orbiting around a man? The cost of our careers, our peace, or even the life we know we deserve?
It’s been on my heart to share how crucial it is to prioritize time alone. To recenter, to ground yourself, and to truly get to know who you are — because only then can you love everything you have to offer.
You bring so much to the table. Anyone would be beyond blessed to be around you or receive your energy as a divine feminine woman.
Making Time for Yourself
My love, I know how hard it is to set aside time for yourself. It doesn’t get easier — whether you’re single, dating, married, or raising kids.
But it all comes down to one question: Do you believe that you are worth prioritizing?
Sometimes, the people around us — in our personal lives or careers — can make us feel selfish for putting ourselves first. But please believe me when I say this: You are most beautiful when you radiate.
The Power of Alone Time
If your time is limited, be gentle with yourself. Still, make it a habit to carve out moments of solitude and give yourself the love you deserve.
If that means waking up at 4 a.m. to meditate, going for a quiet walk, working out, or listening to a podcast that inspires you — do it.
The only person standing in your way is you.
We often say we’re “too busy,” but if we have time to prioritize everything else — work, relationships, responsibilities — we can find time to nurture our own health and healing.
Take an honest look at your life. Where can you make time?
Maybe it means giving something up. Maybe it means stepping out of your comfort zone — because yes, being alone can feel lonely at first.
But as you grow and get to know yourself, that loneliness turns into peace. It becomes comfort. You begin to feel at home with yourself.
And when that happens, you shine differently — and you show up stronger for the people you love.
Final Reminder
You are capable. You are deserving. You are confident, radiant, and powerful — a divine feminine woman who is becoming everything she’s meant to be.
I love all of you, and I’m routing for you.
Sincerely,
Ans




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